03-16-2018, 06:58 AM
(03-15-2018, 10:38 PM)Shadow2200 Wrote: I hear what your saying, it least in the short term it's like having less, even though no flap is good thing. without girls initiating and trying to have sex with ya kind of in a bind with few options.
The thing is for me is no-fap NOT a good thing. To be exact I consider only excessive fapping or porn as bad not if you are doing it here and there.
(03-15-2018, 11:18 PM)Benjamin Wrote: That's some very strange logic. "Your only source of sex".
It's not sex at all.. sounds like your mind is playing weird things to convince you to stop.
Well, English is not my first language and I wrote it in the middle of the night because I couldn't sleep. What I meant that I could take care of this need by myself if needed (even if it isn't real sex) and was independent from women in a certain way. If I can't do that anymore I am completely dependent on women on fulfiling my needs and that's not something I want to be. Not to mention that there will probably not always be women around when I wanna have sex. So in fact I consider this independence as more important as getting laid - if this makes sense for anybody. That's what makes it difficult, because I wanna have sex with women but I also wanna have the option to take care of myself and with this version it looks like I only can have the one or the other.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.
