03-08-2018, 05:38 AM
(03-08-2018, 01:49 AM)Determined Wrote: I think it's great that you can get women to be supremely comfortable with you.
I posted this earlier but took it down regarding your dream.
As I mentioned, the subconscious mind is purely symbolic so should not be taken literally. That being said, it's crucial that you contextualise the dream rather than observing one element in isolation.
I had a dream recently where it seemed a bit off (I had an interaction with a girl I haven't seen in years) but when I contextualised the dream I remembered that the setting was in a fair ground and there was a big line for fairy floss. Both the fair and the big line were significant to my interpretation, so much so that I could pinpoint exactly what the dream represented about my life and what the symbolic representation of the girl meant.
In your case I listed an example: If you've had a problem sexualising interactions with women because you end up in a brotherly role, then by having sex with your sister you're symbolically breaking free from that previous mind set.
The absolute worst thing you can do is have your conscious mind go haywire as this would only impede progress. Let the changes happen as they are and enjoy the ride, released of any and all expectations.
wow thank you so much Determined. Youve made sense of what I couldnt and really appreciate it.
yes in my case I think women see me as the friend, the safe friend to have. I am super confident and relaxed around girls and can chat to them no problem as mentioned and yes they seem at ease with me but im assuming this is because im an overweight man that they just dont find sexually attractive any more so my personality only works at getting them to become friends with me.
THEREFORE youre interpretation of my dream makes COMPLETE sense and I really really hope that DMSI worked at destroying this previous mindset.
I have no problem telling a girl im interested or trying to subtly ask them out but they will say no or politely form an excuse which is where the problem is :/
Thank you im not distraught about the dream now. I was definitely confused by it for 2 days before coming onto here and sharing it (again ive avoided details) and then since then you and the general replies have shown me its not to be taken literal and now you have contextualised it for me which makes super sense.
Thank you also for remember what I write and paying attention to my posts as the support from you, Zane, Catman and others helps me alot in knowing im not alone on this journey, so thank you.
OF3 5.75.7G 13/15Vol
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days