Racking Up The Notches: DMSI 3.2

[Duke.Togo]

Hey Brother, it's good to read your new journal postings and hear about your successes.

I just wanted to chime in and offer some very unsolicited advice. Take it with a grain of salt and come to your own conclusions.

If you're goal is to rank up the number of women you sleep with, then stay away from inexperienced women. While it's an ego boost, there isn't much to be gained. Most girls like that tend to be projects and require some time or effort in terms of building comfort.

And the few that don't, the sex itself tends to be messy and unsatisfying to a large degree. Getting an uptick on your sexual partners doesn't mean the sex has to be mediocre along the way.

Wow Duke! You are missed! Are you running DMSI 3.2 too? Wish you can write a journal again!

Yes I was aware going in that virgins take way longer and they're not that satisfying too. I have had decent same night lays with virgins in the past though, so I was taking my chances. Also I was attracted to her so I wanted her. If by date 2 there wasn't at least a sexual makeout, I would drop her. And there was. Well, didn't work out this time.

I suspect your goals conflict with DMSI's goals. It's trying to get them interested in you, and you're trying to get them interested in you. The effect may be overload, especially for an inexperienced woman.

Also, you may be experiencing the genuine level of attraction you actually have for her, courtesy of DMSI, instead of what you wanted it to be, courtesy your PUA mindset.

I don't understand how our goals can conflict. "It's trying to get them interested in you", the it you're talking about is DMSI? Which means my subconscious? And I'm trying to get them interested in me, so shouldn't it cooperate with me?

But yeah in the date I was aware that my subconscious wasn't cooperating with me. My conscious will wanted it to happen but I wasn't excited about it and I felt my body language subtly telling her signs that I don't want her. It is harder to do pickup on girls I don't feel attraction for but on DMSI it's even more pronounced. As to why my attraction for her disappeared today.... It's still in the air.

Well, you'll figure out which ones work and which ones won't. Don't waste your time if the feeling isn't there.

No Journals for me this time. I just saw your posts and wanted to chime in. I'm glad to see you doing so well.

Also, I'm glad you finished reading the Dark Room. It's a heavy book, but, wonderfully written and totally bizarre. There's a lot in that book, if you go past the surface level. It depends on what you take away from it.

Looking forward to reading more updates from you Brother!