02-19-2012, 12:57 PM
In my experience, the only harm porn will do to you with regards to your interactions with women is causing you to polarize to, and attract, a specific type of woman and repel the rest; which is to say, whatever you obsess/focus too much on, is what your subconscious begins perceiving as what you want, and it will cause this polarity. If other beliefs happen to prevent them from coming into your life, then you will find porn is good for killing your sex life.
Anything in moderation is fine. In fact I believe that a man who tries to deny his sexuality by not using porn at all in order to "get women" is actually emasculating himself in a sense, to appease women. Women, who, I might add, are very likely to also use and enjoy porn in moderation, if they are healthy.
I believe it is a major error on a man's part to try to change oneself to appease or appeal to women. I also think it is the same error for a woman do so to appease or appeal to men. In the case of a man, though, she is looking for the leader, not the follower; the man who sets his own rules and expectations and standards, does his own thing, and can take it or leave it when it comes to her coming into his life. She does not want to be able to control you at the genetic level, regardless of what society has convinced her of at the conscious or subconscious levels.
The solution? To attract women who are right for you... stop trying to attract women, and start being yourself, doing your own thing, and leading your own life. You will then automatically polarize yourself to attract those women who are in alignment with that reality, and they will fit you best. Trying to attract women otherwise is in general going to get you women who may not be in alignment with you, and the result of that frequently is her controlling you.
Anything in moderation is fine. In fact I believe that a man who tries to deny his sexuality by not using porn at all in order to "get women" is actually emasculating himself in a sense, to appease women. Women, who, I might add, are very likely to also use and enjoy porn in moderation, if they are healthy.
I believe it is a major error on a man's part to try to change oneself to appease or appeal to women. I also think it is the same error for a woman do so to appease or appeal to men. In the case of a man, though, she is looking for the leader, not the follower; the man who sets his own rules and expectations and standards, does his own thing, and can take it or leave it when it comes to her coming into his life. She does not want to be able to control you at the genetic level, regardless of what society has convinced her of at the conscious or subconscious levels.
The solution? To attract women who are right for you... stop trying to attract women, and start being yourself, doing your own thing, and leading your own life. You will then automatically polarize yourself to attract those women who are in alignment with that reality, and they will fit you best. Trying to attract women otherwise is in general going to get you women who may not be in alignment with you, and the result of that frequently is her controlling you.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
