01-13-2018, 01:39 PM
(01-12-2018, 11:50 PM)thor2014 Wrote:(01-12-2018, 09:20 PM)CatMan Wrote: It seems to be deeper than that.Spot on Catman for years I was the life of the party. I could go into a bar, private party and get to know everyone within a short space of time. Men and women would tell me I was the most charismatic person in the room. As I use to make them laugh.
I've always been known as the charismatic/funny/charming guy, but yet don't get very much actual sexual follow through.
I believe this "cocky funny" thing is vastly overstated. There's a lot more to it than that, I'm sure Shannon is on it. The program is already metastasizing a lot. Last thing you want to be is the "dancing monkey" archetype from PUA stuff "performing" for women's validation and amusement like a standup comic. Seems low value and supplicating. If we continue the path it's currently on, the program should be able to make us get attraction organically, without needing to "entertain" women like a court jester. Trust me it isn't all that, I've gone that route for a long time.
We'll get there man, we'll get there.
Did it ever get me laid ? Very very rarely. In fact the quiet ones who somehow knew how to radiate their vibe in a sexual way were the ones got who laid more. They were not the most handsome looking but just knew how to project their sexuality. Yup..this is what DMSI will eventually do for everyone !.
DMSI even though it is still experimental taught me how to project a sexual aura that got women silent and hooked on me. Have to admit its something I am still working on. However I realized i do not have to be the cocky and funny bloke to get laid. Cocky and funny for a lot of people a way of hiding behind their sexual intent.
Just because you made the girl giggle and you got her number. Doesn't mean she wants to go to bed with you.
Like I said previously allow Shannon to work on getting the core of DMSI working for everyone. I really do not want members putting pressure on him to add features which are not necessary.
Just you three guys happened to be charismatic and funny type personalitys and not have resutls in your first hand experience doesn't mean that you guys were not getting laid because of your personality type/humor.
I know guys who are super serious and get laid, and guys who are playful funny types who get laid. It all depends on if your alpha in the mind.
A real alpha is attractive whether you're "funny & charismatic" or not.
You guys were obviously giving signals in one way or another that turned the women off. Don't assume it was your humor/charismatic type personality that wasn't getting you laid.
I could see why you don't want it in DMSI and that's fine but don't make assumptions based on your past. You may be wrong.
I know an alpha who was really funny who got laid all the time and had allot of relationships. And other guys who aren't funny who do the same thing.
It's case by case and situational. It's all about balance too. No women wants to be with a guy who is supplicating or a clown. but they LOVE a guy that can make them laugh and still be alpha.