NG: The Solution to your Women Issues

[Jay]

Yo Jay, what have your experiences been with NG?

You posted earlier in this thread and I'm wondering how it worked out for you.

I do believe that one of the biggest benefits I receive from grounding regularly is basically being more present and more comfortable with myself, apart from that I’m just more social, more playful and more direct in my interactions, especially with women. It’s not perfect but things are definitely getting easier since I started.

And it’s not that I’ve been getting laid since I’ve started NG again or that I’ve been doing it continuously (since watching the same videos over and over again kinda burned me out from doing it for a while), but I definitely see more interest from women since making it a daily habit and actually enjoying doing NG instead of seeing it as a chore, also things have picked up since I started making my own videos.

I’m not saying that this is a regular occurrence but as far as results go, since starting again I’ve experienced things such as getting the deer in headlight look a few times (which never happened to me before), seeing more women stare, prolonged eye contact, touching their hair quite often while talking, getting nervous around me (I had one girl that couldn’t properly think around me anymore, which was quite fun), girls spontaneously striking up a conversation with me, sharing quite personal info while we just met, women sitting down near or next to me (even though there were enough other places to sit), being told how easy it is for them to talk to me, describing me as confident, cocky and even being described as being humble as well (even though I didn’t quite see myself like that at the time, or still sometimes do), more touching, easier to flirt, stuff like that, and all in all I just feel better about myself. It also kinda sucks knowing in hindsight that I could've gone a lot further than I did so far.

I’m just more comfortable and confident in general and around women (not all, mind you) and they’re more comfortable around me, that’s it. I’m not saying that NG is solely responsible for this and I definitely have my “off” days, but it’s definitely a step in the right direction, I also noticed my mood is just better the more I practice it and when stopping I’m more prone to anxiety or self-criticism.

Also when I broke up with my ex a while ago, I was pretty bitter about it (and became more bitter as time progressed) but I do see NG as one of things in helping me with the healing process and seeing women in a more positive light again and just admiring and exploring their beauty (without wanting, judging, just appreciation), and being present with it (while also asking myself and contemplating what kind of person I have to be in order to cause and receive that level of attraction, and basically just focusing on that person and getting lost in the process).

I also tend spending a lot of time by myself working on my business so when I do go out or just go somewhere I noticed it takes less time to get my social acuity on par again when talking to friends or someone face-to-face, also my eye contact has improved a great deal and is pretty steady now.

Although I do see NG as a catalyst, the most important thing I’ve come to realize is how you see yourself, and from which frame you’re coming from. If you can’t see yourself as this awesome, capable, sex-worthy guy or believe in yourself that it is possible for you, all the NG in the world (or subliminals or any other method for that matter) won’t make that much of a difference.

Also Geodude, if you happen to be reading this. Thank you for being the inspiration for me to start NG again (and to stick with it).

I cant find the video One" by MPGamer55 on youtube. Anyone have a link?

He made his videos private (probably due to copyright infringement). I’m only gonna share this video for a few days so get it while you can.

Link

Thank you! Do you have any western grounding videos? One without Asians.

No, as far as WNG goes I do add the occasional ASMR video in my sessions which has plenty of eye contact. But I generally just focus on traditional NG.