12-31-2017, 02:46 PM
(12-29-2017, 10:48 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I'm lost again.
Getting good with women is so f*cking weird. You gotta be a certain way, but you gotta be congruent, but you gotta be congruent in a way the chick likes, not in a way she doesn't like, but you can't be a certain way to get chicks to like you or you're being desperate or try hard, but you can't "be yourself" because that hasn't worked your whole life.
F*CK!
I'm so confused and I can't do anything anymore. I feel like I'm caged.
All I'm looking for is a way to develop into an attractive, successful man that is congruent with who I am. Is that so hard?
Yes, turns out it is, because I've pretty much realized I'm NOT an attractive man unless I'm a mysterious wallflower, then people seem to flock to me like moths to flame but I have no idea why. And if I talk, they scatter. It's the weirdest shit ever.
FML
Same thing I have. Attractive body language but still internal issues so when I talk it fucks things up with women who were initially attracted, at least the hot ones.
