SargeMaximus: Blooming to Alpha

[kalmah0804]

I don't think that it's because Sarge isn't interesting. I'm sure every single person is interesting in different ways, the problem probably has to do with the way he talks, he portrays himself as someone who isn't interesting or attractive with his language, what he talks about, or how he speaks (I'm not there in the room with Sarge so I can't say in each different scenario what it is that turns people off).

Everyone finds different features in different people "interesting" and the same can definitely be said of women. It's not because Sarge isn't interesting, it's probably because the way he talks portrays him as such.

I agree because it was the same with me in the past (and still is). I remember once on AM6 I was at a party. While just standing there two women came over, took my hand and dragged me to the dancefloor. As far I started talking to them they left me alone. I think we cannot communicate our personality properly or at least we can't do it at a emotional level. At least it seem to be the case for me. Even if I try it looks like I am in objective interview mode and cannot find my way to the subjective emotional/connecting mode.

I definitely often feel the same way, which is why I felt compelled to post in Sarge's thread over this issue.