12-20-2017, 05:03 AM
Jesus dude, your mum sounds like my last gf.
"as her standpoint in 99 % of cases is done from a victim-standpoint and she have a big problem admitting to mistakes and taking on responsibility for anything gone wrong"
From this I recognised the value of "emotional maturity". Emotionally mature people can take responsibility for themselves, understand where they are wrong in a relationship and can process their emotions and convey them in a mature manner conducive to relationship building.
Emotionally immature people are the opposite; incapable of ownership so they blame others within relationships, expect that their emotional outbursts will be well tolerated and generally unsympathetic to the feelings of others causing relationship degradation over time.
Its funny how despite a person's age they may still be undeveloped on the inside. If you can develop your own emotional maturity, it'll safeguard you from her behaviour and may eventually teach her by demonstration how to behave in a relationship.
"as her standpoint in 99 % of cases is done from a victim-standpoint and she have a big problem admitting to mistakes and taking on responsibility for anything gone wrong"
From this I recognised the value of "emotional maturity". Emotionally mature people can take responsibility for themselves, understand where they are wrong in a relationship and can process their emotions and convey them in a mature manner conducive to relationship building.
Emotionally immature people are the opposite; incapable of ownership so they blame others within relationships, expect that their emotional outbursts will be well tolerated and generally unsympathetic to the feelings of others causing relationship degradation over time.
Its funny how despite a person's age they may still be undeveloped on the inside. If you can develop your own emotional maturity, it'll safeguard you from her behaviour and may eventually teach her by demonstration how to behave in a relationship.
