11-28-2017, 07:10 PM
(This post was last modified: 11-28-2017, 07:15 PM by SargeMaximus.)
(11-28-2017, 06:12 PM)K-Train Wrote: Hey there Sarge. I think what Determined is alluding to (he can correct me if I'm wrong) is the fact that your hairdresser *seems* (keyword SEEMS, because we ain't there so we don't know) to NOT be interested in you in anything other than a platonic customer-business associate relationship then why continue to entertain her in any setting outside of business.
Now here's the thing, and this is all IMO: IF you yourself genuinely do NOT mind being in a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it's your right and no harm no foul. However, IF you DO mind, and you DO want something MORE than a platonic relationship with your hairdresser outside of business interactions then it SEEMS counterproductive to keep talking with her in that specific regard.
Yeah well obviously I want something more (isn't it obvious?) but I don't know how to do that.
The reason I'm doing what I'm doing is because I think it WILL lead me there. I've learned so much this year about socializing and women and I'm doing exactly what I think is the right thing to do.
You say I shouldn't continue talking with her in that specific regard, but what do you mean by that?
Any suggestions that don't include "next her and move on" are welcome.
To me, it's about getting what I want. I want my hairdresser. Nexting her won't do that, that's why I don't listen to that advice.
(11-28-2017, 06:12 PM)K-Train Wrote: All that being said, it's all you man. We're not there, and if you feel all this is necessary for your development, have at it.
Yes, I do. Like I said, though, if someone can help me improve to better my chances with her, I'm all ears. What I won't listen to is "move on, bro" because that's giving up.
And because I'm not spending anything on her that I wouldn't be spending on a male hair stylist, I don't see the problem.
If I'm losing my balls and being emasculated, ok, let's address that. If I'm spending for her kids taxi, let's address that, but going to get my hair cut and trying to woo her? I don't see a problem.
Not to mention, this girl started out absolutely infatuated by me. So I feel like there's something there.
(11-28-2017, 06:12 PM)K-Train Wrote: *******************************************************
On another note, I've had the same issue with women showing a shit ton of interest and then it stalls out. In one case it *may* have been due to the anti-sniper cause one chick was revealed to be a bit of a drama queen or as people in the states call it, "ratchet".
Yeah I hear you.
That frustrates me because drama queen, really? That's a problem now? How about "shake it off" modules for DMSI so we don't get rattled by the crazies?
As I've said, if it was ME, I'd have DMSI ONLY anti-snipe and repel women who were a threat to your life (including, but not limited to, women who would sabotage your work/ability to make money, your reputation, or anything to keep you from your goals in life).
But if a girl likes to talk about herself all day, I couldn't care less, so long as I'm f*cking her.
