11-26-2017, 04:22 AM
(11-24-2017, 03:24 PM)Greenduck Wrote: I just don't know what I should do about it, I feel it's my responsibility. I don't know how to act, who to be, how to be natural at home. F*cking f*cking f*cking sh*t f*ck!!!! The situation pisses me off and I don't know what to do about it.
There is a book called "Cutting Loose: An Adult's Guide to Coming to Terms with Your Parents" written by Howard Halpern (cheap as kindle edition or used).
While I dont agree with all of the authors points, there are also interesting real life examples from his clients of family situations and their role in it and what happened when the clients began to change their behaviour (which reminds me of your current situation - you are changing and your parents notice it and also change their behaviour. Maybe try to get you to change back to old behaviour).
Maybe the book can give you a few interesting insights.
