11-22-2017, 12:16 PM
(11-11-2017, 11:47 AM)THolt Wrote: Yeah social rejection hurts. I socialize with people at work fine but outside of work I almost have close to no social life outside of social media. I feel like no one reciprocates when I ask them if they want to do things. Then I feel like I try to hard which makes feel even more awkward. UD is helping this but I feel a sub that is specifically designed for improving social skills would work wonders.
Before anyone hangs out with you. They are going to ask what value can I possibly gain from hanging out with this person. I personally think a sub will not assist in bridging this gap. The remedy I believe is to develop a sought after value that people may like, or relentlessly pursue what you enjoy doing outside of meeting friends on social media. A hobby in itself can be value that can attract like minded people.
