11-09-2017, 05:54 PM
(11-08-2017, 09:15 PM)Ars0n1sT Wrote: Cool, I appreciate that Sarge. Good info.
No problem man, glad you found it good in some way.
I just had to address this because I see it as a common theme among many on the forum and perhaps I can help. Hope you don't mind...
(11-08-2017, 09:15 PM)Ars0n1sT Wrote: Starting to get gay thoughts. The ****? I feel like this sub is testing me. No hate, I have gay friends, but I like chicks. Very weird.
Having gay thoughts is no different than having hypochondriac thoughts IMO. They're just thoughts, and don't mean anything.
I've had many thoughts throughout my life that I had cancer, brain tumors, heart attacks, ruptured intestines, and all manner of bodily ailments that turned out to be false (as in: upon getting checked by the doctors, we found out I'm physically healthy. Plus, I didn't die when I thought I was going to, so that further proves it was all in my head).
I think a lot of guys take these gay thoughts to mean they might be gay or might be turning gay, but it's the same thing as hypochondriach stuff: it's not real! It's a thought! Nothing more!
Also, if you meditate at all (I used to a lot) you'll discover that thoughts are just a natural product of the mind. Much like saliva is a natural product of the mouth. The mind just produces thoughts, it doesn't mean they're "real" or "true".
Hope that helps.