(09-21-2017, 07:01 AM)awesomeDMSI Wrote: Long story short:
I started DMSI 3.1 A about 17 days ago. I have felt major change since day one and have been much better myself. Felling completely confident in myself and my conversation filter is completely gone. I literally DGAF any more.
Girls are constantly giving me IOI's and everything. I will write a journal soon.
That said I noticed something odd with my room mate. She has always been passive aggressive and entitled (her BF doesn't help as he constantly puts her on a pedestal and is the most beta person I've met. She abuses this too).
That said, she has never done this passive shit with me as she knows I will just ignore it and shut it down. I've always been somewhat "alpha" in that sense. I don't put up with games or BS.
Before DMSI she walk over and start conversations with me and these could last up to 5 hours in some cases. We got a long very well honestly, since she never tried this manipulative shit on me.
Here's the weird thing, ever since DMSI... She has been complaining more and more about shit, acting more entitled, and avoiding me completely. When she does come to me, it's all about whining and trying to get shit out of me.
That's when I discovered she is most likely a Covert Narcissists. Over the past few weeks here true colors have been showing more and more. She litteraly checks off every trait of a Covert narcissist.
So now I am wondering if the Anti-Snipper is causing:
A) Me to notice this behavior more.
B) Causing her to react differently to me. (Before DMSI, she was giving me constant IOI's and weak flirting - Something I believe was just validation seeking now).
is this DMSI? No other girl has reacted this way to me, most of my other girl friends are giving MORE IOIs and wanting to hang out with me MORE often.
This is the exact opposite.
You are putting her in the same box as you put all other girls you meet in your life. Relationships doesn't work like that, every relationship is different, is created over time with it's own dynamic, jargongs and own characteristics.
As you describe your relationship before you started with subliminals, combined with her absence of negative personality traits toward you, she most likely trusted you and felt that she could be herself with you. As you now have changed in the way you act, she no longer know if she can trust you, and thus is forced to "act" towards you as she have to do towards everyone else.
You are wondering why she is acting different, and maybe you also miss the talks with her that you are describing.
Maybe the changes are happening to fast for your relationship to keep up.
Maybe it will solve itself when the changes become integrated in you and you become familiar with your new "self.
Maybe you could talk to her about that you are trying to discover new sides of yourself, and hope that your relationship don't have to suffer because of it.
