10-18-2017, 05:24 PM
Always ready to read into other people of how they felt to make them feel comfortable. Not say things that would make them feel bad, or act in a way that they wouldn't go in line with who they wanted me to be. Anticipating other people's needs all the time, but that is the past. I have made a change. I no longer put all of my energy of how other people feel, and try to adapt to their needs, because I have my own needs that need to be taken care of. And that is the only motivation I need for doing that, I don't need to justify it. Not right now. The change is going to be made first. It may become weird at times, and I will probably go over the line sometimes, but that will be needed to create the balance that I need. As long as I listen to what I need in the moment things will work out. Little by little.
Because I am tired of always doing what other people want to do. I don't know who I am because I don't know what i want. It's not my job to keep you comfortable. That is your job - not mine. As long as I am not making you uncomfortable by choice, I have no responsibility for you.
Because I am tired of always doing what other people want to do. I don't know who I am because I don't know what i want. It's not my job to keep you comfortable. That is your job - not mine. As long as I am not making you uncomfortable by choice, I have no responsibility for you.
