02-05-2012, 09:28 AM
Thanks Shannon - I am saving that.
Yesterday night I was at a warmup. Three friends and a new cute girl. Half french and half danish. She is like every other 17-24 year old girl, loving Twilight, Taylor Lautner, etc.
She said something like, "every girl wants how Ryan Gosling is in Drive. When he takes his gloves off with the redhead girl and being a man, being in control of the situation, even though he's been all this nice all the time".
Which of course strikes me as attentive, yet not needy but manly. Later I told her that girls doesn't even know what they want, which made her eager to try explain it again, which I made fun of.
Also because I wasn't given her so much attention as all the other guys and didn't really talk with her. She began to tell me that I looked serious and when I was sitting in the sofa, she told me I looked like a serious mafia. (the worst part was I tried to smile in order to feel good when I sat in the sofa lol).
I was like what? What do you mean? and we talked a bit about it later. First, she said she thought I was shy and insecure? (which I was like.. okay...?) Then she said I looked like I own it, like.. I have this expression in my face like indifference and she thought that I could be like Ryan in the movie.
I said she made it sound like a bad thing in the start when she commented about the way I was carrying myself. She said, no it's not a bad thing (she told me that after I had interacted with her a bit and being honest with her). She mentioned "me and my girl friend(s) have been talking about such kinds of guys". Made me curious but I don't remember her tell me what theses kinds of guys are like to them...
Hmm.. guess I loss my frame and lost my power when I asked about her comments on me..
What do you think?
- LM
Yesterday night I was at a warmup. Three friends and a new cute girl. Half french and half danish. She is like every other 17-24 year old girl, loving Twilight, Taylor Lautner, etc.
She said something like, "every girl wants how Ryan Gosling is in Drive. When he takes his gloves off with the redhead girl and being a man, being in control of the situation, even though he's been all this nice all the time".
Which of course strikes me as attentive, yet not needy but manly. Later I told her that girls doesn't even know what they want, which made her eager to try explain it again, which I made fun of.
Also because I wasn't given her so much attention as all the other guys and didn't really talk with her. She began to tell me that I looked serious and when I was sitting in the sofa, she told me I looked like a serious mafia. (the worst part was I tried to smile in order to feel good when I sat in the sofa lol).
I was like what? What do you mean? and we talked a bit about it later. First, she said she thought I was shy and insecure? (which I was like.. okay...?) Then she said I looked like I own it, like.. I have this expression in my face like indifference and she thought that I could be like Ryan in the movie.
I said she made it sound like a bad thing in the start when she commented about the way I was carrying myself. She said, no it's not a bad thing (she told me that after I had interacted with her a bit and being honest with her). She mentioned "me and my girl friend(s) have been talking about such kinds of guys". Made me curious but I don't remember her tell me what theses kinds of guys are like to them...
Hmm.. guess I loss my frame and lost my power when I asked about her comments on me..
What do you think?
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
