(10-02-2017, 12:49 PM)CatMan Wrote:(10-02-2017, 11:36 AM)RTBoss Wrote:(10-02-2017, 11:14 AM)CatMan Wrote:(10-02-2017, 10:24 AM)RTBoss Wrote:(10-02-2017, 12:06 AM)CatMan Wrote: The backlog theory is EXACTLY what I've often thought of. On the same page as me, brother.
It's why I scaled back to 2 loops. And I feel good here, seems to be the best compromise for me. I had patience, and awaited either a breakthrough, or a new version, whichever came first.
Didn't you see "glimmers of hope" when you ran 2.5, Catman? That was a no H&C version. I seriously think, if you saw some benefit there, you should try 21 days of 3.1-B.
Hmm, I can't recall. I'd have to go back to my old V2.5 offline journal to see.
I did an experiment of B for Shannon on this one, V3.1, much earlier on.
It surprisingly felt the same as A I think. I've heard the stories of it, so that was eye raising to me. That likely means not too much of it was being executed. At least on A the H&C should be to try to move things forward.
I feel A should give me the chance to get H&C, so until I start seeing more blatant signs of girls responding to it, I think A may be my best bet. I'll leave B to the pros for now, lol!
You barely ran B for a week, IIRC?
You need to get this H&C thing off your mind. Even Shannon said, after running B, that H&C still happens - just by brute force. I concur. Duke would cocur (pipe up Duke, if you're around!). Ben, what'd you think? Anyway, I'm going to throw out the resistance and fear card, here. I think your subc is afraid B might work, so you're just avoiding it.
Anyway, do something different...unless you feel like you're legit making headway, day-in-and-out? Otherwise, you're just spinning your wheels.
I'm using the version designed to actively go after the issues that cause resistance as a focus. So my mind fears the program will work...so it's using the version best able to handle the resistance issues to MAKE it work? I don't follow that. I just know I have a lot of crap in my mind to deal with, A LOT, so A is what I want to focus on. Others like B? Great. Bet they have a lot less crap in their mind to combat. I wish I did as well but it's clear to me I may have a lot more than I even thought to deal with judging by several of my dreams.
I'm struggling to see solid results with girls on A, so switching to B makes no sense to me at this point. At least the H&C can work on me to pave the way, A is the way forward for me it seems. A person can get the same external results on A that a person can on B. I don't see any downside to me to stick with A until I see true execution. That was my original plan anyway, sticking with A and getting rid of enough garbage from my past to get serious results on it for at least 6 full months. THEN I'd consider switching to B. I have too much crap in my mind from all the years of awfulness with girls, I want to keep purging it, otherwise I won't move forward. Better than wasting my time resisting/stonewalling B, which is probably what happened and why I felt nothing really on it. Resisting constantly has been enough of an aggravation on A already...
I know guys like B and that's awesome. Rock on to those that can get results they're happy with on it. It's clear I either need A or an upgraded program version which will happen in time. I noticed no difference in B as I said, so I likely wasn't executing much of it if at all.
I think I could very slowly be seeing some forward momentum. It's very hard to tell often. I do sometimes get dreams that are relevant to the script. Some stuff when out or with people, at times I wonder afterwards if it was something worth noting etc.
I don't want to try to be hasty and switch for no reason. The whole external thing is off in the distance for me for the time being, I'm fine with that, I accept that. I'm happy staying with A until V3.2. As I continue getting more time in, and better versions come along, sticking with A should remove enough crap that I can get this thing functioning better. I hope!
You always have an excuse. Good luck to you. Just stick with what doesn't work, and don't try anything else. Whatever, dude. You've been on A for fuckin' ever. Try something else. It's your life, your decision, but I don't have much respect for your lack of results when you don't do much to change it up.
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And by the way, please take my attitude with a grain of salt. While I still feel this way - I'm sure I could word it nicer - I've had a bad day of sorts, and I'm blowing off steam on the forum. So anyway, I'm being a bit of a dick. But I still wanna say what I said, lol.