09-28-2017, 11:26 AM
(09-28-2017, 10:13 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Actually I've read rational male and I didn't see anything in it of value.
Cool, I'm only 1/3rd of the way through.
I found the concept of buffers to be profound.. The 'little stories' we tell ourselves and the barriers the subconscious puts up to protect us...all in the name of protecting our ego from 'rejection'... deep sh1t.
I also very much enjoyed plate spinning, and how effective it is when done subtly.
On top of that he puts forward the idea of being unconsciously Alpha without being forced... obviously close to home with me running AM6.
I think this is a major plus from subs, maybe the crux of the matter. Change from the inside out vs the other way around (pretty much all other mediums).
If we try to change using ideas we've read, or talked about.. that's all well and fine but there is a significant period of adaptation and 'acting as if'... subs by and large eliminate that .. at least consciously when done right.
gg IML.