09-12-2017, 06:18 PM
(09-12-2017, 04:12 PM)Plouf Wrote: Right now I'm in a state where I don't even need a girl, nor want one.
It's like on my first run...I have no desire to go after girls at all.
I think it's good because I feel enough by myself and it's a great feeling, but at the same time I'm worried because an healthy man is naturally wired to go after women, primitively, just for sex at least.
Like on run #1, my libido is pretty low. How I am without DMSI is pretty funny, hopping to get a gf or a sexual partner just to lose that damn V card. But while running it I don't give a ***** damn about that.
Is DMSI supposed to makes me feel like that ?
It's a good thing dude. Remember what I said about being nonchalant with women, it screams high value. When women can be around a man who isn't overtly trying to get in their pants, they can ease up and relax. From there comfort builds and then attraction.
Flow with it. Let the sub take you where you need to go. Being a horndog is actually unattractive to women who aren't already sexual with you.
Not giving a damn about sex is sexy. I think you need to let go of that assumption "all healthy men need to be horny". While true in one sense, it can frighten women if that's the vibe you're giving of. Allow the women to come close first, be intimate then once enough comfort is built go sexual.
