09-11-2017, 12:28 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-11-2017, 12:31 PM by dissonance.)
We met on this app few weeks ago. I don't have her added on anything other than this app. She had a "whisper" (anonymous public text image) saying "someone dab or smoke with me." So I private messaged her and said "anyone?" she said "are you chill and not a weirdo?", etc.
I haven't asked to add her on snapchat or anything else yet because I got the vibe she is being very careful with me, since you know this is an anonymous chat sort of app, not like tinder or something. Also, she has a boyfriend and i don't want to make it seem like im tryin to like force myself into her life and push our acquaintance too fast to try to meet with her and steal her from him or cause drama in her life, so i didn't ask for her social media or phone number yet.
I mentioned to her a couple times so far that i am trying to meet new people and friends, i never mentioned dating. So im just trying to act cool and show a non-agenda vibe, and just maybe create a friendship with her, and meet with her in person sometime, and let it hit it off from there.
Two really good psychics confirmed that she is unhappy though with her boyfriend, and she would be open to a friendship then relationship with me, and that she is currently just trying to figure me out or get to know me better, etc.
Yeah, at this point after asking her if she likes psychedelics, i'm just going to wait for her to respond and respond like a few hours after she responds as well.
In my mind, I was thinking maybe she is doing this short answer thing after she said the "you're freaking cool" message, to sort of confuse or test me and see how i react, see if I get all mad or message her a bunch of times in reaction to her suddenly going cold-ish. Because, if I did react with an overly invested vibe, even after knowing the fact she has a boyfriend, then that means I'm a bit iffy, right? I'm not sure exactly how to word the subtext of me reacting like that would be.. what do you think it would indicate to her?
Anyways, yeah I'm going to try to show similar levels of investment as she is with these short texts, and let her do the next msg after that last msg i sent her.
I haven't asked to add her on snapchat or anything else yet because I got the vibe she is being very careful with me, since you know this is an anonymous chat sort of app, not like tinder or something. Also, she has a boyfriend and i don't want to make it seem like im tryin to like force myself into her life and push our acquaintance too fast to try to meet with her and steal her from him or cause drama in her life, so i didn't ask for her social media or phone number yet.
I mentioned to her a couple times so far that i am trying to meet new people and friends, i never mentioned dating. So im just trying to act cool and show a non-agenda vibe, and just maybe create a friendship with her, and meet with her in person sometime, and let it hit it off from there.
Two really good psychics confirmed that she is unhappy though with her boyfriend, and she would be open to a friendship then relationship with me, and that she is currently just trying to figure me out or get to know me better, etc.
Yeah, at this point after asking her if she likes psychedelics, i'm just going to wait for her to respond and respond like a few hours after she responds as well.
In my mind, I was thinking maybe she is doing this short answer thing after she said the "you're freaking cool" message, to sort of confuse or test me and see how i react, see if I get all mad or message her a bunch of times in reaction to her suddenly going cold-ish. Because, if I did react with an overly invested vibe, even after knowing the fact she has a boyfriend, then that means I'm a bit iffy, right? I'm not sure exactly how to word the subtext of me reacting like that would be.. what do you think it would indicate to her?
Anyways, yeah I'm going to try to show similar levels of investment as she is with these short texts, and let her do the next msg after that last msg i sent her.
