Which sub? Lover

[Shawn]

What restrains most people from running the "attract your perfect ***" product line is that you have wait from 1 month to 4, sometimes more

For 4G it is even up to 9 months.

I think first you should make your mind if one perfect lover is better for you than more "probably-less-than-perfect" lovers. And then decision should fall between DMSI and AYP/MYP. And it is possible to make the sexual lover more long term (I remember at least one ex-forum member with her submissive sexual lover), but despite some romantic feelings, in this case sex will be what keeps you both together.

I would rather have one perfect sexual lover than lots of lovers that are going to be disappointing. If it ends with the perfect one then I will keep listening and I am sure another one will show up? I am willing to wait a while to get the guy I am comfortable with and knows how to please me sexually. I have tried random guys before without subs and it frustrated me.

Well, like Alpha360 said you can't have all at once. Choose what is most important to you and stick with. I am sure the DMSI lovers wouldn't be disappointing at all as only "good" ones are going to be attracted but it probably wouldn't be as perfect as with the perfect lover.

To your question, you cannot be absolutely sure he shows up, that's what's most people repel from using these subs as this is a long term commitment without guarantee. There can always be things which are in the way, like fear, guilt, shame.

Like I said, make your mind and maybe Shannon will also find some wise words for you.