Everyone has strong and weak points when it comes to seduction.
For me, some of my strongest points are to spark attraction and build rapport.
My weak point is/was lack of creativity when it is time to isolate and/or close the target.
The funny thing is that the end result is the same than if I had trouble attracting or building comfort. That is not as much fun action as I would like to have... Apparently with DMSI fully deployed, women are supposed to be more aggressive. My experience is that women needs to be led to have sex. Dropping the ball due to lack of creativity about where to go next, I fail to lead to sex. Maybe you can confirm if it is reality or some limiting belief. I think that this is reality and it is not limiting as there exist ways to change and get the desired outcome.
I have few established patterns on how to do it but anytime a situation falls outside of the realm of the pattern (most of the time), I wasn't seeing options on what to do.
Some strange thing that I have noticed since I started using DMSI, new ideas are popping up in mind that are addressing my sticking point. I wonder if it is part of what the DMSI A healing is supposed to do....
1 example, where I live restaurants are forced to give a receipt by law even for just a coffee. So very often, if you order a coffee at a coffee shop, they will produce a receipt and then ask you if they can dispose it for you so clients do not litter the shop or they just ask you if you want to have your receipt. I got a new flirt idea next time that I'm served by a cute girl and she ask me if I want my receipt, I will reply:
Write down your phone # on it and I'll want it.
Next last night, I got a dream where I was in a restaurant. I had to go to the restroom and I'm walking around searching the damn restroom. The usual thing I do is to stop someone from the staff and ask them for the directions to reach the restroom. I have been in that situation thousands of time in my life. In my dream, I stopped my cute waitress with whom I've been flirting with during the meal and I know it is on as I feel sexual tension. Been in that situation too in the past not knowing how to act on this tension. In my dream, instead of asking for the directions. I'm asking to show me where the restroom is and she comply. When we reach the restroom, I pull her in the restroom with me for making out.
The dream ends right there. No sex in my dream. Several things astonish me.
1. This sounds like actually doable in real life!
2. I rarely dream or remember them (When I say that everyone says that we all dream. It is just that I don't remember. I don't argue. I say oh ok. But my usual night is that I close my eyes. Then its black and I wake up the next morning) and when I do dream, it is some really weird shit nightmarish dream that does not make any sense at all.
3. Since I started to use DMSI, I remember at least 2 dreams that I got and last night dream was actually very useful. It gave me a revelation. Some insight on how to solve my most urgent stucking point with women.
This is absolutely stunning!
For me, some of my strongest points are to spark attraction and build rapport.
My weak point is/was lack of creativity when it is time to isolate and/or close the target.
The funny thing is that the end result is the same than if I had trouble attracting or building comfort. That is not as much fun action as I would like to have... Apparently with DMSI fully deployed, women are supposed to be more aggressive. My experience is that women needs to be led to have sex. Dropping the ball due to lack of creativity about where to go next, I fail to lead to sex. Maybe you can confirm if it is reality or some limiting belief. I think that this is reality and it is not limiting as there exist ways to change and get the desired outcome.
I have few established patterns on how to do it but anytime a situation falls outside of the realm of the pattern (most of the time), I wasn't seeing options on what to do.
Some strange thing that I have noticed since I started using DMSI, new ideas are popping up in mind that are addressing my sticking point. I wonder if it is part of what the DMSI A healing is supposed to do....
1 example, where I live restaurants are forced to give a receipt by law even for just a coffee. So very often, if you order a coffee at a coffee shop, they will produce a receipt and then ask you if they can dispose it for you so clients do not litter the shop or they just ask you if you want to have your receipt. I got a new flirt idea next time that I'm served by a cute girl and she ask me if I want my receipt, I will reply:
Write down your phone # on it and I'll want it.
Next last night, I got a dream where I was in a restaurant. I had to go to the restroom and I'm walking around searching the damn restroom. The usual thing I do is to stop someone from the staff and ask them for the directions to reach the restroom. I have been in that situation thousands of time in my life. In my dream, I stopped my cute waitress with whom I've been flirting with during the meal and I know it is on as I feel sexual tension. Been in that situation too in the past not knowing how to act on this tension. In my dream, instead of asking for the directions. I'm asking to show me where the restroom is and she comply. When we reach the restroom, I pull her in the restroom with me for making out.
The dream ends right there. No sex in my dream. Several things astonish me.
1. This sounds like actually doable in real life!
2. I rarely dream or remember them (When I say that everyone says that we all dream. It is just that I don't remember. I don't argue. I say oh ok. But my usual night is that I close my eyes. Then its black and I wake up the next morning) and when I do dream, it is some really weird shit nightmarish dream that does not make any sense at all.
3. Since I started to use DMSI, I remember at least 2 dreams that I got and last night dream was actually very useful. It gave me a revelation. Some insight on how to solve my most urgent stucking point with women.
This is absolutely stunning!
