07-13-2017, 06:47 AM
You're going to have to decide for yourself if "sacrificing" your desire to sleep around is worth the commitment and love you want to share with this woman. If she is the "love of your life," is it really sacrifice if what you gain holds more value than what you've given up?
You're still young, and you're not married - yet. You could enjoy a few years with her, and then perhaps something happens and it doesn't work out. Who knows? Then you can have a few years of gallivanting, if that's what you want. Or, you'll find you're relieved you didn't go sleeping around and fully committed yourself to her.
When I think about what I'm "missing out on," while married, I simply remember back to the times I had sex with women I had no feelings for. The excitement leading up to, and the short time during, completely disappeared following the experience - and I truly felt as if I had merely rubbed one out. There is truly no better sexual experience than sleeping with a woman you share a loving bond with.
That's just my experience.
You're still young, and you're not married - yet. You could enjoy a few years with her, and then perhaps something happens and it doesn't work out. Who knows? Then you can have a few years of gallivanting, if that's what you want. Or, you'll find you're relieved you didn't go sleeping around and fully committed yourself to her.
When I think about what I'm "missing out on," while married, I simply remember back to the times I had sex with women I had no feelings for. The excitement leading up to, and the short time during, completely disappeared following the experience - and I truly felt as if I had merely rubbed one out. There is truly no better sexual experience than sleeping with a woman you share a loving bond with.
That's just my experience.
