07-10-2017, 03:09 AM
(07-10-2017, 02:40 AM)mojamhaque Wrote:(07-09-2017, 10:37 PM)Zane Wrote:(07-09-2017, 10:17 PM)mojamhaque Wrote: In the book "The Confidence Gap" the author wrote about himself-
My low self-confidence also played out in intimate relationships. I was so afraid of rejection, I never asked girls to go out with me unless I was drunk – and they usually only said ‘yes’ if they were drunk too! On those rare occasions when I did actually have a girlfriend, I would usually end the relationship after two weeks. I figured if I ended it quickly, she wouldn’t get a chance to realise how ‘inadequate’ I was; in other words, I got to reject her before she could reject me.
I had similar problems with studying. At medical school, I was convinced that I was dumber than everyone else in my year, and whenever I tried to plough my way through all those thick, complex textbooks of anatomy, physiology and biochemistry, all my self-doubt came gushing to the surface. So what did I do? Well, I didn’t like those feelings of anxiety, or those thoughts about being dumb, so to avoid them, I avoided studying! And the consequence? For my first two years at medical school, I failed every single exam, and had to re-sit them all.
Sounds like similar to me. Hope by using E2 tool I will be able to overcome this.
This is my story too
Zane I have a question... "how long you are listening OF 5G?". By this I will be able to predict "how much time I will require to use E2 for overcome fears and become a absolute confident person."
I have been listening to OF-5G for about 2 months and before that I listen to OF-4G for 30 days and I plan to listen OF-5G for atleast 6 months.
