07-09-2017, 10:16 PM
I came to the realization that same night pulling is sometimes simply a matter of creating opportunities (Goal #3).
Last thursday night, I met a girl who was with her boyfriend. They told me that they were in a open relationship. I started testing the boundaries of their openness. I started to touch the girl, pull her hair I have even kissed her in front of her boyfriend. I cannot tell that he did appreciate but he didn't say a word neither.
There was obvious sexual tension between us but I couldn't pull the trigger for the full close. The bf presence was making me uncomfortable to do so. I just told myself that I'll hook her just enough so that she wants to continue to explore possibilities with me another night.
I'm not so sure anymore that I'll see her again and in retrospect, with a little bit more boldness, a bathroom close would have been totally feasible or even just attempting it, it would have increase her interest level in seeing me.
Anyway, back to opportunity #2. As the club was closing. I was outside of it with my new friend couple. People were leaving and I did run my secret routine on the girl which is to tell her:
Are you good keeping secret?
Any normal girl will say yes and become curious and will want to know what your secret is. The actual secret can be dumb shit this is not what is important. What is important is the frame:
1. You have something that she wants.
2. You qualify her
3. She has to work to have it.
4. When ready to disclose it, you project authority by commanding her to come over so that you can whisper it in her ear.
5. As a bonus, you get some good kino as you whisper the 'secret' in her ear.
So I do this and say goodbye. As I was leaving. Another girl saw this. She was with some dude. And she asked me what was the secret that I told to the other girl. So I grin and start teasing her with the secret.
They were walking to the bus stop and she did ask if I could drive to her place. She was ready to ditch the other guy for a car ride. He was objecting by saying that the bus would pass in 5 mins. I told the girl that it depended where she was heading.
She lives in downtown and I was heading in the opposite direction so I said sorry. I can't do it.
but then again. if she was horny and DTF. Simply driving her to her place was making me the best candidate for the job. I didn't go for it as it was late and I was working the next morning but this made support the point of this post:
Simply setting up opportunities that make it possible to happen is all it takes.
Last thursday night, I met a girl who was with her boyfriend. They told me that they were in a open relationship. I started testing the boundaries of their openness. I started to touch the girl, pull her hair I have even kissed her in front of her boyfriend. I cannot tell that he did appreciate but he didn't say a word neither.
There was obvious sexual tension between us but I couldn't pull the trigger for the full close. The bf presence was making me uncomfortable to do so. I just told myself that I'll hook her just enough so that she wants to continue to explore possibilities with me another night.
I'm not so sure anymore that I'll see her again and in retrospect, with a little bit more boldness, a bathroom close would have been totally feasible or even just attempting it, it would have increase her interest level in seeing me.
Anyway, back to opportunity #2. As the club was closing. I was outside of it with my new friend couple. People were leaving and I did run my secret routine on the girl which is to tell her:
Are you good keeping secret?
Any normal girl will say yes and become curious and will want to know what your secret is. The actual secret can be dumb shit this is not what is important. What is important is the frame:
1. You have something that she wants.
2. You qualify her
3. She has to work to have it.
4. When ready to disclose it, you project authority by commanding her to come over so that you can whisper it in her ear.
5. As a bonus, you get some good kino as you whisper the 'secret' in her ear.
So I do this and say goodbye. As I was leaving. Another girl saw this. She was with some dude. And she asked me what was the secret that I told to the other girl. So I grin and start teasing her with the secret.
They were walking to the bus stop and she did ask if I could drive to her place. She was ready to ditch the other guy for a car ride. He was objecting by saying that the bus would pass in 5 mins. I told the girl that it depended where she was heading.
She lives in downtown and I was heading in the opposite direction so I said sorry. I can't do it.
but then again. if she was horny and DTF. Simply driving her to her place was making me the best candidate for the job. I didn't go for it as it was late and I was working the next morning but this made support the point of this post:
Simply setting up opportunities that make it possible to happen is all it takes.
