DMSI 3.1A Tiger Totem

[RisingSon]

I found these two comments from random strangers on the internet insightful, so I'll share them here.

The biggest hurdle inexperienced guys have to overcome is the "rejection" a woman gives before anything happens.

You can expect the first or even second kiss to be turned down (cheek given) or not reciprocated (she lets you kiss her but doesn't kiss back).

Similarly, when you start feeling her up she might smack you and say, "No!".

The same thing usually happens when you start undressing her.

The question is why women do this, and the answer is to validate themselves in their own minds that they are not sluts. "He fucked me even though I said no! That means it was out of my control."

This token rejection will occur anytime a woman begins to feel like she might be acting slutty. Usually after the first time the token rejections get weaker and weaker as they feel less slutty doing it with you (you need to give them emotional validation afterwards).

So if a girl says during sex that she doesn't like it rough, tell her something like "Well I do," or "You might like it with me". And just go for it.

Honestly, I'm still a Virgin but I've been affectionate with two guys, one to third base with. The first guy was vanilla. He wasn't into choking at all, thought it was weird. He wouldn't spank or do anything. Just wanted his dick sucked, and to just stick it in me. Luckily I never let it happen with him because I was never turned on with him at all, I'd always be really dry down there. The one time he offered to eat me out, I just got super bored. The second guy, pulled me over his knees when I 'misbehaved'. Complimented my long slender neck, and would constantly choke me. Grabbed at me, telling me he didn't care if I wanted him to stop. Obviously, I'd keep hanging out with him so he can put two and two together and know that I'm not mad at him for doing it. I always protest whenever he touches me, but that's just me. I like a bit of struggle, bit of pain, bit of degradation. Don't get it twisted though. He's a nice guy, douchebaggery is unattractive. Just, when we get playful, the dominant side of him comes out, and I find that sexy. I asked him why he likes to choke and all that, and his simple answer was, "just a dominance thing." I don't know why I typed all this out, but I hope it sort of helps.

And this... Lol... Why do they do this?

http://www.playboy.com/articles/women-mo...olent-porn
https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/bm9w7...olent-porn
http://www.mademan.com/news/just-surpris...lent-porn/