I'm with Nox on this one, you don't want to start demonizing yourself. It's a slippery slope, and it only goes down.
The world will cast you as a villain every chance it gets, make sure you realize the distinctions for yourself.
As for the video debate, I had a few women in the past who used to love recording our sessions and then watching it together. Usually I would delete it right after we watched it, because I hated the idea of seeing my mug on some amateur porn site, but the girls loved it.
Maybe try suggesting it to them as something fun to do and watch together afterwards. You might be surprised at how many of them say yes, and at what they are then willing to do during sex also.
My two cents...
The world will cast you as a villain every chance it gets, make sure you realize the distinctions for yourself.
As for the video debate, I had a few women in the past who used to love recording our sessions and then watching it together. Usually I would delete it right after we watched it, because I hated the idea of seeing my mug on some amateur porn site, but the girls loved it.
Maybe try suggesting it to them as something fun to do and watch together afterwards. You might be surprised at how many of them say yes, and at what they are then willing to do during sex also.
My two cents...
