(07-04-2017, 03:55 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: *****, don't shame this dude. With all the false rape allegations here in the U.S., I record all my interactions too, at least the audio. I have last week's audio, just didn't post it because it's nothing special.
A few weeks ago, one of my oldest friends had a chick accuser him of rape. She cheated on her boyfriend with him, then tried to save the relationship by claiming she was afraid to say no because he's an accomplished weightlifter. Luckily, my friend listened to me when I said to record all interactions (he originally said it was "creepy" too) and was happy he had her on tape, on all fours screaming how much she loved being "his little *****."
Do whatever the hell you want in your own home. It's your domain. You wanna record, record.
Always be safe. But there's safe and then there's too much.
I've worked and volunteered with rape victims of both genders for years. Even a simple text after the sexcapade about how you had a great time and her responding in a similar manner shows there was consent given. I've seen that clear a guy on a false rape accusation. I've also seen guys lose everything they've owned from false rape cases.
The audio recording thing is also a good way to prove innocence.
Video taping sexual interactions and enjoying the idea that you'll be doing it more isn't really in the same ballpark, in my opinion.
Obviously do whatever you want in life. Right and wrong are usually just societal programming. My opinions are just opinions.