06-29-2017, 02:54 PM
Today, I had a brief talk in the park with a young woman, she was there with her child.
She saw me and manifested some curiosity about me and then she came closer. She tried to make a convo by starting with a remark about her child , telling me that he wants to swim in the pond.
I was sitting there on the grass relaxing. I realize I didn't have much to stay to her.
Its interesting, I read that attraction is the easy part but where people fail is to build rapport and deep connection that can escalate into something meaningful.
I usually do good with the attraction part but much less with deep connection/sexual connection. It will be my priority now to get some skill in those two areas. IOIs is a waste of time , if one cannot do anything about them.
She saw me and manifested some curiosity about me and then she came closer. She tried to make a convo by starting with a remark about her child , telling me that he wants to swim in the pond.
I was sitting there on the grass relaxing. I realize I didn't have much to stay to her.
Its interesting, I read that attraction is the easy part but where people fail is to build rapport and deep connection that can escalate into something meaningful.
I usually do good with the attraction part but much less with deep connection/sexual connection. It will be my priority now to get some skill in those two areas. IOIs is a waste of time , if one cannot do anything about them.
