06-28-2017, 08:36 AM
(06-28-2017, 03:49 AM)CuteS Wrote: Thank you Benjamin for your answer! I feel a little bit better now than before, I listen to the sub every night again and I sleep better. I do have feara about relationships and I don't trust men easily so it might be something about that..
My mind is still very much attached to this one guy, I can't shake it off. Usually a 2-3 months of dating wouldn't affect me this much. A fear of loosing this person is huge, more now than before.
Excellent insights. This does sound like resistance.
Fear of losing him in this case is what is being worked on I'd think. You can't lose a person. They're not yours. No one belongs to anyone. That's why relationships can be amazing. When your husband pops up you and him wont belong to each other. You are not property. You're sharing parts of your lives with each other which is much more powerful because of how fragile it is.
Who knows if this is the guy. How would you feel if it isn't, but you settle for him anyways? If you were on the brink of having perfect and you settled for good.
Pay attention to the rough times. They'll help you understand how to appreciate the great ones.
And stop pining over dudes. Go dancing and get hit on a bit and have fun. What's the point of trusting your subconscious to help you if you're not going to let it do its thing?
