01-14-2012, 02:26 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-14-2012, 02:37 PM by LionMonkey.)
I invited her out.
Me: "hey, I am free Friday and Saturday next week. We can get a cup of coffee or a glass of wine if you want
Her: "I think I can, am not sure
"
Me: "Ok. That sounds fairly? Haha.. I think I saw your mom, on my way to training today ;-p"
1-2 hours later
Her: "My mom? Ohh well"
Me: "She had the same beautiful deep, ocean blue eyes, like yours hehe. Anyways xyz, you can just text me when you find out if you can.
Her: "Haha! Will do that.
Her: "We can go out friday I think but it's probably going to be just as friends right now. Because I am almost together with someone else but you seem like super cool and sweet/cute so I want to go out with you as a friend. If you still are interested then
"
I think it would be fun, with a challenge to go out with her but on the other side, I wouldn't be honest because I won't just be a friend.
What do you think about this situation?
Me: "hey, I am free Friday and Saturday next week. We can get a cup of coffee or a glass of wine if you want
Her: "I think I can, am not sure
"Me: "Ok. That sounds fairly? Haha.. I think I saw your mom, on my way to training today ;-p"
1-2 hours later
Her: "My mom? Ohh well"
Me: "She had the same beautiful deep, ocean blue eyes, like yours hehe. Anyways xyz, you can just text me when you find out if you can.
Her: "Haha! Will do that.
Her: "We can go out friday I think but it's probably going to be just as friends right now. Because I am almost together with someone else but you seem like super cool and sweet/cute so I want to go out with you as a friend. If you still are interested then
"I think it would be fun, with a challenge to go out with her but on the other side, I wouldn't be honest because I won't just be a friend.
What do you think about this situation?
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
