LionMonkeys journey to become more of a real man with AM2011

[Shannon]

The key there is to be direct without being rude or overly aggressive, and not come across as needy, but bold and interested.

Shannon, you got to teach me this! I've had TONS of mistakes in this and it seems like I've only learned very little from the mistakes...

Let's say I meet someone I am extremely interested in. Let's say we're on a bus or a flight, and she strikes me as potential wife material, and I know I can't let her get away without trying. I would talk her up as much as possible to make my assessment based on as much info as possible, and then say, for instance:

"Look, I normally don't do this, usually I spend a while getting to know someone beforehand. But I think there's something extraordinary about you, and given the short amount of time I have left to do this, I think we should stay in contact and get to know each other better. In fact I'd like to give you my phone number, and if you have some time, I'd like to have coffee with you when we get off the plane/bus/whatever. You strike me as being the kind of woman a guy could spend his whole life looking for, and I'd really hate myself if I didn't at least try to get to know you better."

That of course would depend on the circumstances as to how it was worded, but that's an example of bold and direct in my style. Just be direct, honest, and let her know that you're being so forward because you see that she's obviously an exceptionally good catch and you only have a little bit of time to make this possibility happen. She'll appreciate the compliment and as long as you're respectful and not too push, she'll let you know if she's interested or not. If she is, take it from there, and exchange contact info ASAP.

If I was really interested, I might try to influence her interest level to motivate her to pursue me, also.

I have no idea or sense on how to do this on text. I think also especially when I don't like to use my time on something that turns out to not being mutual or real.

Through text, it's not as easy as what I do. I usually use PSE or pheromones (or both) to do this part, if I have a short amount of time to get her interested. I hate texting and I avoid it whenever possible. I prefer to be IN PERSON when I attract a woman. If I have more time, multiple encounters, etc. I will just feel her out and figure out what is required and then go for that.

You really have to learn to read body language, vocal cues, facial cues, cues from actions, choices of words, etc. to be able to know how to game a woman in a way that is right for her. There is no one way that works for every woman, although the Mystery Method does come close, from what I am told.