LionMonkeys journey to become more of a real man with AM2011

[Shannon]

She seems interested, but she also seems to be shit testing you by being slightly unavailable to see what you'll do, from my assessment. Play it cool. Give her some time before you suggest getting together again. Tell her by doing that, that you're not desperate for her, even if you stay in touch with her. Then casually mention where you'll be at some point when she could join you, without specifically inviting her, and see what she says. If nothing, or she's seeming interested, say something like, "You know you're welcome to join me if you like." And see what she says. If it's another "schedule conflict", I would then say, "Well tell you what. If you want to hang out, let me know. We'll figure something out." and then just let that aspect of it go. Two strikes and then she can make some effort if she's interested.

That's what I'd do in most cases. If I was really interested, I might try to influence her interest level to motivate her to pursue me, also. But if she's like "Gotta have her" hot, I would be very direct and immediately try to get her to spend time with me. The key there is to be direct without being rude or overly aggressive, and not come across as needy, but bold and interested.