01-12-2012, 10:19 AM
Ben, on the weight loss, knowing what each stage does is not going to help you. Just use it and let that go. It will work without you needing to know what's in it. On the sex... the key seems to be to turn the tables. Make her want sex, and then tell her not until you're ready. I have found that no on the first date works well. Sometimes, I tell her no on the second or third date too, if she's asking. Occasionally, that will lead me to decide I don't want to have sex with her at all. But it's my choice, not hers, when I have sex. And if I choose to have sex and she doesn't want it, I either make her want it, or I put her in the friend zone. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!