06-14-2017, 09:45 AM
I think two possible reasons:
1. He's only a 'shade' (as Shannon describes them)..someone who is a prelude to the real thing (the perfect husband). Apparently you can have one or more of these people coming into your life before the perfect person appears.
2. He is the one but is having difficulty dealing with these feelings which may have come over him all to quickly. He may still have strong leanings towards his ex especially if she dumped him. Her moving back to his city might have re-awakened emotions there.
My advice is not to go all clingy or desperate on him. Men really hate that. Give him all the space he needs and don't chase. If he is really into you he'll be back. If not let go and move on. That may sound harsh but you will miss new opportunities (maybe from the sub) to meet anyone else if you are pining for one person.
Been there done that and it never works!
Keep playing the sub and see what happens.
1. He's only a 'shade' (as Shannon describes them)..someone who is a prelude to the real thing (the perfect husband). Apparently you can have one or more of these people coming into your life before the perfect person appears.
2. He is the one but is having difficulty dealing with these feelings which may have come over him all to quickly. He may still have strong leanings towards his ex especially if she dumped him. Her moving back to his city might have re-awakened emotions there.
My advice is not to go all clingy or desperate on him. Men really hate that. Give him all the space he needs and don't chase. If he is really into you he'll be back. If not let go and move on. That may sound harsh but you will miss new opportunities (maybe from the sub) to meet anyone else if you are pining for one person.
Been there done that and it never works!
Keep playing the sub and see what happens.
