12-17-2011, 11:07 PM
Shannon, I appreciate that you took the time to reply with your experience and your assumption on me what I might have been thinking...
Yeah, I've experienced the young ones and even some of the older ones have the assumptions that I only want to get in their pants if I touch them too much. It happens mostly when they aren't ready for it and I see I have to control myself more!
In fact, I may have read somewhere about push-pull and I've tried to experience with the "dance" when you are interacting with a woman. I may have did some of the things out of the subconscious...
Actually, recently I have changed my mindset from "knowing" to "know nothing". I just know/see what I find attractive and then I put myself in there. Mostly with hi or say what I think. Makes me less presumptuous...
Don't you think forcing it or "fake it till you make it" works?
I believe in beauty in women, I will do my best to express that no matter how the outcome will be. It must be real though, which leads to the question.. "what is real?" - I guess it comes down to what one believes in.
I relate to it too from my martial arts training.. sometimes I really don't feel like doing some exercises at home but I just do them and I feel better afterwards.
About finding my style - I'm not aware of how I'm doing it. I know that people see me as a grounded man, who radiate some martial artish and women tell me regularly that I am cute or I am good-looking...
Even in the 7 years I've been practicing martial arts, I can only sense / have an intuition on how my fighting style is.
Yeah, I've experienced the young ones and even some of the older ones have the assumptions that I only want to get in their pants if I touch them too much. It happens mostly when they aren't ready for it and I see I have to control myself more!
In fact, I may have read somewhere about push-pull and I've tried to experience with the "dance" when you are interacting with a woman. I may have did some of the things out of the subconscious...
Quote:If you want to know how to deal with women, there's two words that anyone who knows what they're talking about will agree with, and they are: be natural. Faking it, forcing it, following a script, will get you "canned". Get canned enough, and you'll get a reputation for being a creep, and nobody will even give you a chance.
Actually, recently I have changed my mindset from "knowing" to "know nothing". I just know/see what I find attractive and then I put myself in there. Mostly with hi or say what I think. Makes me less presumptuous...
Don't you think forcing it or "fake it till you make it" works?
I believe in beauty in women, I will do my best to express that no matter how the outcome will be. It must be real though, which leads to the question.. "what is real?" - I guess it comes down to what one believes in.
I relate to it too from my martial arts training.. sometimes I really don't feel like doing some exercises at home but I just do them and I feel better afterwards.
About finding my style - I'm not aware of how I'm doing it. I know that people see me as a grounded man, who radiate some martial artish and women tell me regularly that I am cute or I am good-looking...
Even in the 7 years I've been practicing martial arts, I can only sense / have an intuition on how my fighting style is.
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
