12-17-2011, 06:32 PM
I have seen it happen that women, especially young ones, get strange ideas in their heads sometimes. I did a photoshoot with a couple girls one time at the beach, completely professional, and she took something I said the wrong way and thereafter has been basically slandering me to everyone who will listen. My comment was that her look reminded me of an ex, IIRC. She thought, in her infinite ego, that I was coming on to her and being "creepy". I don't know how much more professional I could have been with them, but that experience really killed it for me, working with certain types of women as models. It's been hard to get back to doing modeling photography because I don't want to have that undeserved treatment happen again.
What I will say is that I see you are trying too hard. PUA teachings generally fill your head with everything you need to do, and a lot of it is artificial. When it isn't natural, as most PUA stuff is not, girls sense it and they may react to you with fear, or think you're a creep. I'd put money on that being what happened here.
If you want to know how to deal with women, there's two words that anyone who knows what they're talking about will agree with, and they are: be natural. Faking it, forcing it, following a script, will get you "canned". Get canned enough, and you'll get a reputation for being a creep, and nobody will even give you a chance.
Learn what your seduction style is, and work it. Mine is the "Moss Method". That is, I grow on them slowly, and when I am done it was all so comfortable and natural that they usually don't know where I began working my magic or just exactly what I did to make it happen. Slow and steady wins the race. The faster you try to go, the more polar your results will be. I prefer to be ahead of the curve, and observe before moving. Then I know whether she's taken, or if she's even worth moving on. And there's no pressure, so she's relaxed and comfortable, and it's just a lot more fun and easy for everyone. I also am primarily a sensual seducer. When I want a woman to respond to me, I communicate with her through touch and body language, and if I am interested in being intimate with her, I try to make her want what I want enough to ask me for it by name, through touch. Never pushing... always closely aware of her responses. If she's not comfortable, I make her comfortable, or if I can't, I back off some. If she's not ready for what I want, I respect that and wait for it, perhaps helping it along a little, but never making her feel pressured. The best way to get a girl/woman to give you what you want, is to make her want it more than you do, first. You were moving too fast and/or too awkwardly for her.
Forget all the PUA crap. Be natural. Learn to read female body language, vocal cues, facial expressions, word choice, and her vibe. Lead her on, gently, into your direction. Make the world around her bend to your desires, so she naturally follows the path of least resistance to where you want her to be.
At least, that's how I do it. And it doesn't work on every woman, but when I find a woman I am compatible with... forget it. She's helpless.
You have to discover your own style of seduction, and realize that not every woman is going to be compatible with it.
What I will say is that I see you are trying too hard. PUA teachings generally fill your head with everything you need to do, and a lot of it is artificial. When it isn't natural, as most PUA stuff is not, girls sense it and they may react to you with fear, or think you're a creep. I'd put money on that being what happened here.
If you want to know how to deal with women, there's two words that anyone who knows what they're talking about will agree with, and they are: be natural. Faking it, forcing it, following a script, will get you "canned". Get canned enough, and you'll get a reputation for being a creep, and nobody will even give you a chance.
Learn what your seduction style is, and work it. Mine is the "Moss Method". That is, I grow on them slowly, and when I am done it was all so comfortable and natural that they usually don't know where I began working my magic or just exactly what I did to make it happen. Slow and steady wins the race. The faster you try to go, the more polar your results will be. I prefer to be ahead of the curve, and observe before moving. Then I know whether she's taken, or if she's even worth moving on. And there's no pressure, so she's relaxed and comfortable, and it's just a lot more fun and easy for everyone. I also am primarily a sensual seducer. When I want a woman to respond to me, I communicate with her through touch and body language, and if I am interested in being intimate with her, I try to make her want what I want enough to ask me for it by name, through touch. Never pushing... always closely aware of her responses. If she's not comfortable, I make her comfortable, or if I can't, I back off some. If she's not ready for what I want, I respect that and wait for it, perhaps helping it along a little, but never making her feel pressured. The best way to get a girl/woman to give you what you want, is to make her want it more than you do, first. You were moving too fast and/or too awkwardly for her.
Forget all the PUA crap. Be natural. Learn to read female body language, vocal cues, facial expressions, word choice, and her vibe. Lead her on, gently, into your direction. Make the world around her bend to your desires, so she naturally follows the path of least resistance to where you want her to be.
At least, that's how I do it. And it doesn't work on every woman, but when I find a woman I am compatible with... forget it. She's helpless.
You have to discover your own style of seduction, and realize that not every woman is going to be compatible with it.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
