12-17-2011, 10:22 AM
(This post was last modified: 12-17-2011, 10:27 AM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 5 - Day 19,
Hey guys, I've been busy living my life!
This week I've been out every night and I've noticed a lot of stuff. One of the things is the ever-changing energy...
There's something I wanted to express and hopefully get some feedback to but I find it quite hard to do so because it is about the principles of seduction related to a certain situation. Gonna try anyway
Yesterday night I was in a bar and I had been sleeping on my Laurels after I went into a group of 4 girls. They were happy and pleased to have me there. It felt effortless and fun in the beginning. I was captivating for sure and the girls were intrigued by who I was, laughed and had fun with the effortless creativity I was creating. When I think back about some of the things I did, it seems really ridicules but it was fun
I talked to all the girls and asked about their "story". To get a sense of who they were.
At a point I took a seat and sat there the energy became a bit serious but with one of the girls, there was some sexual tension. She was quite interested in me. She sat beside me and had her legs spread wide open facing me. I wasn't facing her but after a few minutes of interaction I faced her a bit more. I had my hands on her thighs at a point and then I pulled away. I think I also tried to grab her hand and squeeze it.. I don't know.. it felt natural and I desired her but seconds after that she stopped the interaction and talked with her friend and then she stood up and went to their side of the table and whispered something to her friends and looked at me.
After that the vibe was stagnant and dead. The girls went out to the floor and upstairs.
And in the end I was sitting there by myself, watching their bags & clothes (I didn't mind, since it was raining outside, my bus wasn't going until an half hours time and I felt low. I tried to focus on having my strong energy back as I have when I walk into a room, make myself comfortable and quick-talk to some people).
They were leaving and I was going too, they did even not say anything to me when they took their coats on and then I took some action, so I gave each of them a big hug and told them that they were fantastic, "I love it!" and the energy were instantly different and I walked away. Funny thing, I did not really feel it.. to give them a hug but as we were hugging I felt better and that might also have caused the positive effect my words had afterwards...
I think my question leads to, I must have been too overwhelming or pushy to the girl who was obviously interested in me? I'm sure if I had paid her less attention than I did there and being more calculative with my movements, it would have gone very different.
Hey guys, I've been busy living my life!
This week I've been out every night and I've noticed a lot of stuff. One of the things is the ever-changing energy...
There's something I wanted to express and hopefully get some feedback to but I find it quite hard to do so because it is about the principles of seduction related to a certain situation. Gonna try anyway
Yesterday night I was in a bar and I had been sleeping on my Laurels after I went into a group of 4 girls. They were happy and pleased to have me there. It felt effortless and fun in the beginning. I was captivating for sure and the girls were intrigued by who I was, laughed and had fun with the effortless creativity I was creating. When I think back about some of the things I did, it seems really ridicules but it was fun
I talked to all the girls and asked about their "story". To get a sense of who they were.
At a point I took a seat and sat there the energy became a bit serious but with one of the girls, there was some sexual tension. She was quite interested in me. She sat beside me and had her legs spread wide open facing me. I wasn't facing her but after a few minutes of interaction I faced her a bit more. I had my hands on her thighs at a point and then I pulled away. I think I also tried to grab her hand and squeeze it.. I don't know.. it felt natural and I desired her but seconds after that she stopped the interaction and talked with her friend and then she stood up and went to their side of the table and whispered something to her friends and looked at me.
After that the vibe was stagnant and dead. The girls went out to the floor and upstairs.
And in the end I was sitting there by myself, watching their bags & clothes (I didn't mind, since it was raining outside, my bus wasn't going until an half hours time and I felt low. I tried to focus on having my strong energy back as I have when I walk into a room, make myself comfortable and quick-talk to some people).
They were leaving and I was going too, they did even not say anything to me when they took their coats on and then I took some action, so I gave each of them a big hug and told them that they were fantastic, "I love it!" and the energy were instantly different and I walked away. Funny thing, I did not really feel it.. to give them a hug but as we were hugging I felt better and that might also have caused the positive effect my words had afterwards...
I think my question leads to, I must have been too overwhelming or pushy to the girl who was obviously interested in me? I'm sure if I had paid her less attention than I did there and being more calculative with my movements, it would have gone very different.
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
