12-03-2011, 09:11 AM
Hi Rainbow, I found this exercise a few days ago. From a guy called Captainjack.
I've been trying it and i'm not sure of the results, but it definately feels alot better than feeling bad and jealous about it, which I was the other night. I think this helped to get over it.
I've been trying it and i'm not sure of the results, but it definately feels alot better than feeling bad and jealous about it, which I was the other night. I think this helped to get over it.
Quote: The following exercises will remove blocks preventing you from succeeding.
The mind is literal. If you have made any conclusions regarding something and you have also identified with that something then the mind applies the conclusion to you as well.
For example, if you say, “I don’t want MEN to succeed with women” and you are a man you have just blunted much of your ability to succeed with women.
See that?
Here’s another example, “Short guys don’t have success with women.” – And, if you consider yourself short, or even SHORTER than others, you’ve just subtracted your success because it at least PARTIALLY applies to you.
A final example: “I don’t want French Guys to be successful with the type of women I want.” – Now, you may not be French, but you ARE a guy, so the decision partially affects you.
We need to clear all of this out.
Process: Clearing of other males as blocks to personal success…
(Admiration means, a feeling of wonder, pleasure or approval – or, the act of looking on or contemplating with pleasure).
Think of a time when you were jealous of a male friend’s success with a woman.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you attributed a male friend’s success with a woman to an attribute you feel you do not (or did not) have.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you were jealous of an enemy’s success with a woman.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you attributed an enemy’s success with a woman to an attribute you feel you do not (or did not) have.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you were jealous of a random male’s success with a woman.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you attributed a random male’s success with a woman to an attribute you do not posses.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you were jealous of a male of another race’s success with a woman.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Think of a time when you attributed a male of another race’s success with a woman to an attribute you do not posses.
Now, change that feeling to admiration.
Keep executing those questions until you can answer this question truthfully and with 100% certainty, “Did you change the feeling to complete admiration?”
Now, do all those until you can honestly answer you can admire any possible scene of another male with a woman you desire! This is NOT a small thing. It is HUGE and it will actually remove your own blocks in your mind because the mind IS literal!