Shannon's Journal

[Shannon]

Shannon, one little concern I have about reading experiences about alpha male and some other programs is that the not caring whether the girls are into you might have been carried a little far. I don't want my desire for woman to decrease, since my enjoyment of them would decrease with that too. I think that the ideal sweet spot is that you care, but you also know that you are gonna be totally fine regardless of what happens. any way you could address this for alpha 2012 and sex magnet 2012?

The whole point is to disconnect your caring about what they think of you, and about being with them, partly as a way to become the man they're going to be more intrigued by, and partly to focus you more on self growth in order to become the alpha. You cannot always focus in multiple directions at once when you're making such huge changes. If you want to become an alpha, you'll need to have what the program is doing to get there. It's all there for a good reason.

Trust me, when you don't care, she's going to be more interested because you don't care and you're not needy. But again, the point of the alpha set is to make you an alpha. Sometimes it requires putting aside other things to achieve sufficient self growth.

As for SM, there's no lack of interest in women in that program.