11-29-2011, 08:44 AM
Jonathan, I think I can help you with your question since I've done both sets and understand what you mean. It's not that you 'don't care'. It's an indifference to not caring what happens. If it does, great, it's awesome! If not, then no worries. I more-so feel more happy with myself and comfortable with myself so much that I live a life doing what I want to do for myself and have women along the way when I want them. And it's not that I have decrease desire in them. I just don't think about them all day long anymore.
But I understand where you are coming from because I was in that position of thinking about women and being persistent in them, I was mostly driven on it. And because of it I was unable to accomplish most other things in my life. But now that I look back, it was really just a lot of suffering. There is a wise man that says in order to get women you have to let them go. And it's true. You'd be surprised what happens when you can truly let them go.
Ryan
But I understand where you are coming from because I was in that position of thinking about women and being persistent in them, I was mostly driven on it. And because of it I was unable to accomplish most other things in my life. But now that I look back, it was really just a lot of suffering. There is a wise man that says in order to get women you have to let them go. And it's true. You'd be surprised what happens when you can truly let them go.
Ryan
