11-10-2011, 06:29 PM
thanks guys
now I didn't send her three texts in a row-sent her 3 texts over the course of like 7 days.
The last one being 'you fell off the map...sending out a rescue team'
and we had a really tight thing going-but I'm not attached or that invested in her just was a little confused about the sudden non-communication when we had been pinging back and forth and having sex once a week for a while, and this is not a good set to be on when your f-buddy disappears lol.
No while this is a bit strange and ultimately I do think there is something very powerful about never reaching out...I'm not there yet, right now its more like I follow my desires and push for what I want and alot of the time woman want to be involved, and if not-no biggie. Right now I'm not really buying into these rules-I find feeling free to break them infinitely more freeing, I simply responded to something she said once, then made a joke, then asked her to kick it 3 days later-and a lot of the time in the past she wouldn't respond to my text and then end up calling me to come over-I was just hoping Ryan might have had some 'secret sauce' text technique in his spice cabinet of button-to bed 'moves' so I could get the N't off asap lol but he's right-I don't think the situation is worth it-if she is not responding to me-but I have literally ZERO invested in it so then again its not worth not shooting a line out every once in a while lol Although I feel the sense that "if she can't text me then she doesn't deserve nothing out of me-next" would be more of a posture-as in I'm hurt so I'm gonna puff up my chest-for me at this point-Hopefully sex magnet will bring it to a point where that attitude is more authentic for me.
"1 woman isn't enough to die over. Hell a hundred women isn't even enough."-I don't like her that much lol-the only thing I'm going to die off at this point is brain exhaustion.
now I didn't send her three texts in a row-sent her 3 texts over the course of like 7 days.
The last one being 'you fell off the map...sending out a rescue team'
and we had a really tight thing going-but I'm not attached or that invested in her just was a little confused about the sudden non-communication when we had been pinging back and forth and having sex once a week for a while, and this is not a good set to be on when your f-buddy disappears lol.
No while this is a bit strange and ultimately I do think there is something very powerful about never reaching out...I'm not there yet, right now its more like I follow my desires and push for what I want and alot of the time woman want to be involved, and if not-no biggie. Right now I'm not really buying into these rules-I find feeling free to break them infinitely more freeing, I simply responded to something she said once, then made a joke, then asked her to kick it 3 days later-and a lot of the time in the past she wouldn't respond to my text and then end up calling me to come over-I was just hoping Ryan might have had some 'secret sauce' text technique in his spice cabinet of button-to bed 'moves' so I could get the N't off asap lol but he's right-I don't think the situation is worth it-if she is not responding to me-but I have literally ZERO invested in it so then again its not worth not shooting a line out every once in a while lol Although I feel the sense that "if she can't text me then she doesn't deserve nothing out of me-next" would be more of a posture-as in I'm hurt so I'm gonna puff up my chest-for me at this point-Hopefully sex magnet will bring it to a point where that attitude is more authentic for me.
"1 woman isn't enough to die over. Hell a hundred women isn't even enough."-I don't like her that much lol-the only thing I'm going to die off at this point is brain exhaustion.
1. There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
2. A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions... Success and failure are for him answers above all.
3. I would not know what the spirit of a philosopher might wish more then to be than a good dancer.-F.N.
