11-01-2011, 03:13 PM
I see it. 
It sounds to me as if you are having a cascade effect. You have a job you're not happy with, so that's motivated you to look for another. Working while looking for another job is stressful and exhausting at the best of times, but doing so unsuccessfully adds frustration, which is a huge taxation of your energy also, and makes you more drained.
This in turn results in either not enough sleep, or lowered quality of sleep, either of which will cause your cognitive abilities to suffer and your memory to go straight to hell. Whenever I find myself unable to remember things I know I usually can remember, I know I am mentally exhausted and deeply in need of sufficient quality sleep.
The lack of sleep will also feed into the negativity and create a downward spiral of negative thinking, which then becomes negative actions and experiences, which finally can make things appear to be hopeless, which only perpetuates the negativity spiral.
Women will avoid such a man because they want to be around guys who make them feel good. The only exception will be someone who is experiencing something similar, who may want to share misery with you. That would be a mistake.
What I recommend is that you consider, depending on your budget, Life Tune-Up first and foremost. That program is designed for dealing with many such common challenges at the same time. If that program is more than reasonable for your current budget, consider using ultra success and positive thinking/positive attitude, which are together a fantastic combination as well. Finally, I suggest trying to get more sleep, and if more sleep is not the problem, try to improve the quality of your sleep by using a program like Insomnia Aid. That program is amazing for improving sleep quality for most people. Another alternative for the more adventurous is to get the Special Meditations 10 volume set and try using the lower levels of that program to meditate during the day to refresh your mind and body and reduce your need for sleep, as well as improve hemispheric coherence and cognitive functioning. 2.5 to 4.5 Hz is very useful for that.
Alpha Male is a very useful and powerful program, but it's not necessarily going to be what you're looking for right away to help you escape the negative spiral you find yourself in at the moment.
It sounds to me as if you are having a cascade effect. You have a job you're not happy with, so that's motivated you to look for another. Working while looking for another job is stressful and exhausting at the best of times, but doing so unsuccessfully adds frustration, which is a huge taxation of your energy also, and makes you more drained.
This in turn results in either not enough sleep, or lowered quality of sleep, either of which will cause your cognitive abilities to suffer and your memory to go straight to hell. Whenever I find myself unable to remember things I know I usually can remember, I know I am mentally exhausted and deeply in need of sufficient quality sleep.
The lack of sleep will also feed into the negativity and create a downward spiral of negative thinking, which then becomes negative actions and experiences, which finally can make things appear to be hopeless, which only perpetuates the negativity spiral.
Women will avoid such a man because they want to be around guys who make them feel good. The only exception will be someone who is experiencing something similar, who may want to share misery with you. That would be a mistake.
What I recommend is that you consider, depending on your budget, Life Tune-Up first and foremost. That program is designed for dealing with many such common challenges at the same time. If that program is more than reasonable for your current budget, consider using ultra success and positive thinking/positive attitude, which are together a fantastic combination as well. Finally, I suggest trying to get more sleep, and if more sleep is not the problem, try to improve the quality of your sleep by using a program like Insomnia Aid. That program is amazing for improving sleep quality for most people. Another alternative for the more adventurous is to get the Special Meditations 10 volume set and try using the lower levels of that program to meditate during the day to refresh your mind and body and reduce your need for sleep, as well as improve hemispheric coherence and cognitive functioning. 2.5 to 4.5 Hz is very useful for that.
Alpha Male is a very useful and powerful program, but it's not necessarily going to be what you're looking for right away to help you escape the negative spiral you find yourself in at the moment.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
