10-30-2011, 04:09 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-30-2011, 04:10 PM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 4 - Day 7,
I've become much more socially 'fit' you could say.
Last night I were at my buddy's cafe and we warmed up there.. getting a great vibe going on and headed into the town.
We end up in a bar.. still great vibe. Lots of people in there. We was looking for some seats, so I say hello to some girls, which they replied favorably and smiley. Then I said just spontaneously, "you girls look fantastic" and they ignored me and talked with each other.
Eventually we get some seats. I walk up to get another round for us three and gets to talk to some spanish people, a petite, cute spanish girl who didn't understand what I said but wanted to lol.
Time passes. Few people left in the bar. This stunning, really cute tall brunette walks in a sits at another table with some occupied blonds.
A douche who was sitting behind her talks to her. When he stopped I took the seat beside her, said honestly what I felt and she said she have a boyfriend, which then I replied with, "then we have to be discreet
" and she said, "I wont cheat on my boyfriend. I'm sorry but I'm really flattered".
It didn't matter. This girl was really open, authentic and cute and she was also the only cool girl that I noticed.. So I'm standing with my buddies and she joins in for a little chatter. Suddenly the douche come up beside her and says that she's in his way and kept saying it and then she left to the bathroom. She looked a little pissed off.
She comes back but sits at her table, the opposite from the douche. I caught her looking once at me but looked away quickly. So I joined her again and interacted openly, sincerely with her and some hugging in between. Suddenly I hear, "Are you guys going to get married or something?" it was the douche.
I had enough of him, so I turned, gave him the finger, shouted HEY! and looked at him dead on like.. you want to die or something? / fuck off!
The douche was like.. 'ok ok' and I didn't heard anything more from him. (I even gave him my hand earlier that night before this girl walked in just for the sake of the good vibe I had going
) So I smoothly get my attention back on this lovely girl..
The lights got turned on suddenly and the bar was going to close. The girl just told me what she was really interested in and I just stood up and then she said, "wait.. what do you do?" which I stupidly replied, "talking with you" and I saw her expression of disgust for a moment, while I walked away...
LESSON LEARNED; DON'T PLAY AROUND, BE HONEST AND REAL WHEN SHE'S HONEST WITH YOU THE WHOLE WAY...
- LM
I've become much more socially 'fit' you could say.
Last night I were at my buddy's cafe and we warmed up there.. getting a great vibe going on and headed into the town.
We end up in a bar.. still great vibe. Lots of people in there. We was looking for some seats, so I say hello to some girls, which they replied favorably and smiley. Then I said just spontaneously, "you girls look fantastic" and they ignored me and talked with each other.
Eventually we get some seats. I walk up to get another round for us three and gets to talk to some spanish people, a petite, cute spanish girl who didn't understand what I said but wanted to lol.
Time passes. Few people left in the bar. This stunning, really cute tall brunette walks in a sits at another table with some occupied blonds.
A douche who was sitting behind her talks to her. When he stopped I took the seat beside her, said honestly what I felt and she said she have a boyfriend, which then I replied with, "then we have to be discreet
" and she said, "I wont cheat on my boyfriend. I'm sorry but I'm really flattered".It didn't matter. This girl was really open, authentic and cute and she was also the only cool girl that I noticed.. So I'm standing with my buddies and she joins in for a little chatter. Suddenly the douche come up beside her and says that she's in his way and kept saying it and then she left to the bathroom. She looked a little pissed off.
She comes back but sits at her table, the opposite from the douche. I caught her looking once at me but looked away quickly. So I joined her again and interacted openly, sincerely with her and some hugging in between. Suddenly I hear, "Are you guys going to get married or something?" it was the douche.
I had enough of him, so I turned, gave him the finger, shouted HEY! and looked at him dead on like.. you want to die or something? / fuck off!
The douche was like.. 'ok ok' and I didn't heard anything more from him. (I even gave him my hand earlier that night before this girl walked in just for the sake of the good vibe I had going
) So I smoothly get my attention back on this lovely girl..The lights got turned on suddenly and the bar was going to close. The girl just told me what she was really interested in and I just stood up and then she said, "wait.. what do you do?" which I stupidly replied, "talking with you" and I saw her expression of disgust for a moment, while I walked away...
LESSON LEARNED; DON'T PLAY AROUND, BE HONEST AND REAL WHEN SHE'S HONEST WITH YOU THE WHOLE WAY...
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
