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[Shannon]

Zan is certainly poetic in his prose. This sounds wonderful, at first, but really what he is saying is that he is a self delusional self made slave to women by his own sexuality. I can tell you I recognize this because that used to be me.

You attract two types of women with that approach. The first is always wearing rose colored glasses and sees things as being just as dreamy. They typically either don't want you to be with other women, but are so wooly minded that they either just pretend you're all theirs or let it go, even though it bothers them. This eventually leads to hurt and resentment in either case.

The other type is the calculating user. She sees your delusions and is quite happy to give you sex in exchange for controlling and using you. And she will. Some of these are so skilled at deception and manipulation that they themselves don't even know they're doing it.

One important pint I'd like to bring up is that it is never okay to have a relationship with multiple women who are not fully aware of it. That's a form of deception, even if they're willing to play along. You should always be completely up front with women about everything, which I very much agree with Zan concerning. The more boldly you are honest, the more polar your response from women will be, and you will find that a man who is honest is afforded a lot of accesses that lesser men are not. For instance... my three girlfriends who all swore they would never do what they promptly did when I was blatantly honest and told them they could be friends with me, or they could be more but they would have to share.

I see some potential for a different type of program, but I don't want to make any man a slave, or delusional.