10-29-2011, 07:14 AM
(10-28-2011, 05:34 PM)Shannon Wrote:(10-28-2011, 05:29 PM)mat422 Wrote:(10-28-2011, 02:03 PM)Shannon Wrote:(10-28-2011, 11:45 AM)mat422 Wrote:(10-28-2011, 03:48 AM)Shannon Wrote: The secret, I have learned, seems to be to recognize the problem and then rationally to calm yourself with realizations as to why there is nothing to be anxious or worried about. That doesn't fix the whole problem, but when you know for sure that there's a solution - and there is - it really takes a load off. Just know that there is a solution, and while it may not be immediate, you're on the right path. Also remember that you're young still.
Haha yeah, I often forget that I'm still young . It's good to know that there is a solution. You are right because a lot of the anxiety was based around being stuck in my ways and not being able to change. But I've proved to myself that I can change and it's not hard to do, it just takes time and hard work.
And patience.
Kind of like the other day when I said to my father, "I haven't decided if I want to be a multi-millionaire or to focus on having a strong married life instead." His reply was that he didn't think I would ever become a millionaire, to which I replied that the main reason most people don't become millionaires is because they don't genuinely want to, don't choose to, and don't try to. As with becoming a millionaire, the goal must be set, clearly and specifically, and then worked towards steadily, a little bit at a time.
There's no reason I cannot become a millionaire. It's actually fairly easy, if you do the right things and make a focused, sustained, intelligent effort for a long enough period of time. The amount of time depending of course on how you go about actually doing it.
There is no doubt in my mind that if I choose to make myself a millionaire, I will eventually be one. The future reality is real, just as is the one in which you achieve your goals.
Knowing that, realizing that, and then working towards it steadily and persistently, is very comforting.
And yes, there is a multi-stage set coming in 2012 for becoming a multi-millionaire. I haven't figured out how many stages it will be, but there will be at least 6, and I am building it for me. You guys can't have it.
Just kidding. You guys are welcome to join me on the journey to self-made millionaire. No woman can resist that combination... millionaire, and had the cojones to make it happen himself. Pretty awesome pair of woman attractors.
I'll take a shot at becoming a multi-millionaire . At this point I'm starting to realize that the only limitations that we have are the ones we create for ourselves. Though I'd have to have a passion come before the money, for me just solely making money the goal would cause me to lose focus.
One of my reasons and drives for wanting to become a millionaire is very simply to push some faces deep into the BS that I have been told about how I can't. lol But seriously, it is true... the ONLY limits we have are the ones we create with faulty thinking, or to put it another way... it is either ignorance or fear out of which we create the cages we inhabit. When you remove those things, the bars are insubstantial, and you can do whatever you want.
The hard part then is figuring out the answer to just one question.
What is it I want?
Yeah. That question has been a difficult one for me to answer. Once I remove all this fear from my life I feel like the answer will get clearer for me.