(11-12-2016, 05:07 PM)Geodude Wrote:(11-12-2016, 04:31 PM)Spiral Wrote:(11-10-2016, 11:27 AM)Geodude Wrote: I'm genuinely happy for people's successes instead of feeling jealousy or resentment. Awesome.
Took me sometime to get here. Congrats on this man. Huge step.
Re: your nofap comment...
Why are you never going back?
Spiral! Great to see you on here again.
Porn is 100 percent negative. NoFap heals your brain because porn has been proven to damage it.
I fancy myself as someone who is elite. I don't mean that arrogantly, I just hold myself to a higher standard.
I have above average success with women because I dont do what all the other guys do.
Not jacking off has increased my self esteem and respect because I have the strength and determination to deny my urges and that makes me feel great. Like when I quit smoking. It's almost exactly the same except porn is killing the lion inside of you and enslaving your mind to fantasy instead of you getting out and getting laid. It hampers real relationships.
That's why.
Good to know. I was curious only about not jacking off, because when I did not do so for a couple years I experienced a loss of libido. Maybe it was all in my head, but it's quite possible I was sick for a while during that time as well. I cannot associate loss of libido to masturbation abstinence, I guess.
I like your explanation regarding the unfavorable consequences of porn. Will give me something to think about.
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"If at first glance it may appear too hard, look again. Always look again." - Unknown
If you would like to get in touch with me, please send me an email.