LionMonkeys journey to become more of a real man with AM2011

[LionMonkey]

Lion, your hidden agenda is to get her to ask you out or spend time with you Think about it...

And no you simply just offer to give her your number if she wants to hang out sometime. It's kinda a "here's my number if you want but idc if you call". Simply, grab her phone and put it in for her, then leave.

Ryan

Hah, you gave me the idea of asking, "do you have a mobile?" she takes it out. I take it and write my number and says, "here's my number, call me if you want" .

Okay.. I didn't wrote everything of our interaction, since I thought it would be too long and I may be not remembering it all at the time I wrote about it...

But anyways.. how can I have had a hidden agenda? I can't see it, really. I expressed that she should come hang out with me. At first she may not be sure of what I was about but as soon as I said that "I didn't want a friend", she knew what it was about, since she said she isn't really available or something along that because of her 2-3 years relationship, which still hasn't fully ended.

I'm getting sick of analyzing this but I'm pretty sure that because we were interacting in like 1 hours, without any touch because I was walking with my bike between us and later stood with my bike and she had her bag on my side. Actually it was pretty doomed to not touching each other when I think about it. Anyways, lesson learned.
"Try be more creative than follow the system." because we were literally just walking and walking and talking and laughing and there may be some connection in between but hard to say. In the end it was mostly platonic anyway.

She's not gonna call unless she's REALLY interested and REALLY bold for a woman. But you can text her. Or get her to text you. It's better to say that you'll call her, so you're taking the initiative like she expects a man to do, because your chances of having her call you are next to nothing in my experience.

Less threatening is telling her about something cool, that "I'll text you about the details when I get home." For which you need her number, of course, and if she's interested in you OR what you have to share with her, she'll give it to you.

That's exactly how it has went with me too!! I've almost always said, "call me / call me if you wanna see me again / call me if you want to" and seriously, I've never got a call as far as I remember.

Yeah, the threatening thing. I'm not very good at holding back sometimes.
It's like not giving a damn but still mean it in a whateverish way that I have to internalize ;-p