09-21-2011, 12:02 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-21-2011, 12:09 PM by LionMonkey.)
Hmm.. I'm not sure if I had a hidden agenda?
I was interested because she was physically attractive to me and cute but I still wanted to know what kind of stuff she likes and that she isn't a total bore, so that's why I did what I did.
I did tell her my intentions when we were about to go apart but maybe I did talk with her for too long time before I made it clear that I didn't wanted to be just friends. I also think it's kinda subconsciously done by me because she is in the same class as me.
Yep, wrong way to do it. I'm new at this in daylight, to give my number out and how can you give her your number without having something to give her? "Here's my number, give me a call if you want". Do you got like visit cards on you with your number and name on it?
And yeah, you guys are right. The way I do things, isn't developed well enough, yet and I when it is developed to a certain level, I really think that I'll find my real style.
Actually I just kinda love how this Alpha subliminal makes it easy for me to do whatever I want and makes it "whatever..." to "rejections" ;-)
I was interested because she was physically attractive to me and cute but I still wanted to know what kind of stuff she likes and that she isn't a total bore, so that's why I did what I did.
I did tell her my intentions when we were about to go apart but maybe I did talk with her for too long time before I made it clear that I didn't wanted to be just friends. I also think it's kinda subconsciously done by me because she is in the same class as me.
Ryan Wrote:You also told her to contact you via phone. That's also pushing things to happen and you're basically saying "I'm going to give you my number, I want you to take it and pursue me". That's not how you convey such a thing. Instead it's more of a "I don't give a crap" mentality...if you want to be pursued. "Here's my number, give me a call if you want".
You shouldn't have stayed and conversed with her if you don't want friendship...you should have cut it off, walked away, and "NEXTED" her. But...you're just in the beginning of this transformation, in a few more months you'll understand all this crap like the back of your hand.
Yep, wrong way to do it. I'm new at this in daylight, to give my number out and how can you give her your number without having something to give her? "Here's my number, give me a call if you want". Do you got like visit cards on you with your number and name on it?
And yeah, you guys are right. The way I do things, isn't developed well enough, yet and I when it is developed to a certain level, I really think that I'll find my real style.
Quote:It's hard and you deal with just alot of rejection in general but if you can grasp the concept
Actually I just kinda love how this Alpha subliminal makes it easy for me to do whatever I want and makes it "whatever..." to "rejections" ;-)
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
