09-20-2011, 04:27 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-20-2011, 04:49 PM by LionMonkey.)
Shannon how can you say that?
I'm not sure in what way you mean practice makes perfect because what my first thought of it was that you can't be practicing to make "perfect", which I assume you meant to let the girl think it's more her own idea to accept the invitation. Sure there might be subtleties that you can be more aware of but talking with a girl, who you find interesting (obviously to me, or else I wont be talking with her for long, unless my intent is something else with the interaction) and you are being honest and clear with your intentions, can't go much other ways. hmm.. she was a maybe girl, so I may have had a different response from her if I was different but I am who I am. Just playing around but I don't think I have a lot of tools to play around with. Mostly qualification and the energy. In the end I don't care about how she thinks about me but how I am expressing myself clearly. What matters to me is how I think about myself.
Sometimes I wonder if I am having a disillusioned view of the way to see women, which makes me blind and much harder to really understand it but my faith and belief has always triumphed over that, yet it's still something that bothers me sometimes because I want to learn as openminded and as much as I can.
I think it's just like in kungfu. When you are learning a technique, you don't limit your moves to how the technique is done, you gotta let creativity, openness and mindfulness guide you. As Bruce Lee says it; "Be like water my friend".
hmmmm... how am I gonna incorporate that in interactions with women I find interesting.....
now when I think about your post you probably mean
I'm not sure in what way you mean practice makes perfect because what my first thought of it was that you can't be practicing to make "perfect", which I assume you meant to let the girl think it's more her own idea to accept the invitation. Sure there might be subtleties that you can be more aware of but talking with a girl, who you find interesting (obviously to me, or else I wont be talking with her for long, unless my intent is something else with the interaction) and you are being honest and clear with your intentions, can't go much other ways. hmm.. she was a maybe girl, so I may have had a different response from her if I was different but I am who I am. Just playing around but I don't think I have a lot of tools to play around with. Mostly qualification and the energy. In the end I don't care about how she thinks about me but how I am expressing myself clearly. What matters to me is how I think about myself.
Sometimes I wonder if I am having a disillusioned view of the way to see women, which makes me blind and much harder to really understand it but my faith and belief has always triumphed over that, yet it's still something that bothers me sometimes because I want to learn as openminded and as much as I can.
I think it's just like in kungfu. When you are learning a technique, you don't limit your moves to how the technique is done, you gotta let creativity, openness and mindfulness guide you. As Bruce Lee says it; "Be like water my friend".
hmmmm... how am I gonna incorporate that in interactions with women I find interesting.....
now when I think about your post you probably mean
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
